But why do we need awareness? Why do we need to educate the general public about what Turner Syndrome is? Does it matter if Joe Public has heard of it or not?
Well there are several reasons why this is important, and the battle will never be over. There are many women and girls out there who remain undiagnosed. Who don't know that they have the condition. Who aren't getting the medical monitoring that they need to prevent complications, identify issues that need managing and ensure a good quality of life. So for them, the medical community especially need to be educated and be aware and on the look out so women don't end up undiagnosed into their 30s and beyond (there is on youtube a butterfly diary link of a lady diagnosed in her 60s, I kid not!).
Also, greater public awareness will hopefully lead to more compassion, empathy and understanding, regarding the infertility (which many others also deal with) and all the other medical appointments and different struggles we might have which might need a few adjustments to deal with in an education or school environment.
It will combat that "oh, but you look normal, there's nothing wrong with you!". Yes, in most cases we live a "normal" life (whatever that is) and day-to-day most problems, if there are any, are managed. But there are ways Turner's can affect us, which can't be seen, which are difficult to explain, and DO make us slightly different in our own way, so if we try and tell you about T.S. and what it means to have it, we're opening up to you and you're special :). With more awareness, people will know what it is, and we won't have to do that initial explaining because there will already be that basic understanding there.
The biggest reason we need awareness though is for the parents who are told their unborn baby has Turner's syndrome. All too often they do not get the support and information they need, are painted a bleak picture, and are often led to think that the condition is so bad, and that quality of life will be so poor, that they feel the only option is to take the ill-informed doctor's advice of abortion. Thankfully 3 years ago, a family in this position found the Turner Syndrome Support Society and got put in touch with someone I know on the Isle of Wight where they live, who in turn introduced them to me and another friend here in Southampton, so they met some real ladies living with Turner Syndrome! It just breaks my heart that it could have been so different, and in certain cases where bad advice is given wrong decisions are being made when actually women with T.S. by all accounts have long, fulfilling lives.
So ends my month crusade of raising awareness of Turner Syndrome, and I will endeavour to keep this blog regularly updated and go into more detail about several of the points mentioned in the last 28 days.
And for my sisters:
Short happens!
Keep calm - it's only a missing chromosome.
Turner Up!
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